今天是我老公的生日。 首先，祝他生日快乐，长命白岁，事业顺利，财源广进，心想事成，天天开心！ 这是我们结婚的第一年第一次庆祝生日。好开心哦！我们已经相恋谈了八年的恋爱。 希望能白头偕老！
我们从小就一起玩到大。他是我的邻居。也是借着他的妹妹和我的妹妹多年的同班同学而认识到了他。直到 2000年， 我就搬家了。我们就没有再联络了。 有一天，突然家里的电话响了起来， 原来是他打来的。 他从他妹妹的六年级纪念册里找到了我家里的电话。当时， 我很好奇因为我已经忘记了以前童年一起玩乐的生活了。还记的当天是2002 年的农历新年年初三，2 月 14 日 有 刚好是情人节呢！没想到就这么一通电话又把我们的感情拉进了。 就这样我接受了他。我们偷偷摸摸在一起有五年。 当初我妈是不肯接受他的就因为他的学历。我和我妈还吵了一架。我认为学历不等于幸福。 很多人学历不高一样能找到好工作啊！ 反而， 有钱不一定很幸福。 我只想要一个平平淡淡的生活，无忧无虑， 有个会关心我疼我的丈夫。就这样我们相恋了五年。
在2007 年的初夕夜前一天， 我到他家里。突然他家里的狗猛向我慌咬。血不停的流，就这样他送我到医院敷了药打了针，锋了十几针的伤口。过后，他就送我回家。扶我到房间。当时，还是他第一次踏入我家。他照顾我大概有一个月。我不能走路，只求他背着我走。 就从那一刻起，我妈开始接受了他。在同一年的四月份， 我就养了一只小狗名小白。每个人都是叫它阿白。它就像我们的孩子一样。每当看到我们到家时，它就会开开心心的跳上来要抱抱。
在2008年的年尾，我收到了一封政府海关部寄来的信。要我到西马去工作。我这一去就去了整整一年。抛下他和阿白是我最痛苦的时候。 人生地不熟，只好硬着头皮出去闯一闯。当初，也是他鼓励我申请海关部的。 他永远都会支持我！还好， 我在西马就认识了好多师兄，师弟，师姐，师妹。 他们都对我很好。 我就好像又多了几个哥哥姐姐似的。好开心哦！我的身体一向都不好，常常会肚子痛。 他们都 很乐意帮我。 可能这就是命运吧！那时，我每个月都会定了机票会东马。之后，我就申请了调任回东马。2009年11月，我终于拿到了批准信。当时，我好开心因为能回家乡陪老公了。又很伤心因为要离开这么关心我的一群好友。
我这一回去就下定了决心好好计划将来。所以，我们就下定了在2010年的七月份举行了结婚典礼。 就这样永远在一起，永不分离。 他是一位好老公，我也要做一为好老婆。老公， 我爱你！
好朋友有给了我一个信息。。。分享分享！
记得几个好习惯：
1. 让行动走在时间之前
2. 和别人约会绝不迟到
3. 遵守自己的承诺
4. 不在无意义的事物浪费时间
5. 学会坚持
加油哦！
看了这五种好习惯，才发觉自己也还没做到最好叻！第一，觉得自己每天都在浪费时间。第二， 每次都为一些不相干的人和事物烦恼，这又何必呢！ 第三， 幸亏自己是一个不喜欢迟到和不喜欢别人迟到的人。如果迟到有理由，还能接受咯！第四， 我会遵守承诺的人。因为我不喜欢别人说到做不到。所以做不到就不要答应别人。第五， 我一定会坚持到底。
如果不喜欢对方这样对你， 你就得检讨好自己。做好自己的本分。你怎样善待别人，别人就会怎样善待你。好之为之吧！“助人为快乐之本” 别人开心，我们也一起开心。 不求回报， 只求快乐！
1. 让行动走在时间之前
2. 和别人约会绝不迟到
3. 遵守自己的承诺
4. 不在无意义的事物浪费时间
5. 学会坚持
加油哦！
看了这五种好习惯，才发觉自己也还没做到最好叻！第一，觉得自己每天都在浪费时间。第二， 每次都为一些不相干的人和事物烦恼，这又何必呢！ 第三， 幸亏自己是一个不喜欢迟到和不喜欢别人迟到的人。如果迟到有理由，还能接受咯！第四， 我会遵守承诺的人。因为我不喜欢别人说到做不到。所以做不到就不要答应别人。第五， 我一定会坚持到底。
如果不喜欢对方这样对你， 你就得检讨好自己。做好自己的本分。你怎样善待别人，别人就会怎样善待你。好之为之吧！“助人为快乐之本” 别人开心，我们也一起开心。 不求回报， 只求快乐！
A child told the mother: “Mum you are very beautiful today.”
Replied the mother : “Why?”
The child said : “ Because you did not get angry today .”
Moral of the story:
1. It is easy to possess beauty:- do not get angry.
2. Anger is temporary madness.
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A man attended an interview for a job.
Along the corridor, he picked up a piece and threw it into a dustbin.
The interviewer passed by and saw it.
This man got the job.
Moral of the story:
Live with good habits, and you will be recognised.
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A small boy worked as an apprentice in a bicycle shop.
A man sent a bicycle for repair.
After repairing the bicycle, this boy cleaned up the bicycle and it looked like a new one.
Other apprentices laughed at him for doing redundant work.
The second day after the owner claimed the bicycle back, this boy was pinched and offered a job.
Moral of the story :
1.Go the extra mile to be successful.
2. Doing more gains more & Doing less loses more.
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The owner of a farm asked his child to work everyday at the farm.
His friend said to him : “ You do not have to make your son work so hard. The crops would grow just as good.”
Owner of the farm replied: “ I am not cultivating my crops, but my child.”
Moral of the story:
1. A simple way to groom a child is to let him experience some hardships.
2. If not cut, jade would not turn into useful ware.
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A shop is always brightly lit up.
Someone asked : “What brand of bulb are you using ? It is so lasting.”
The shop owner replied : “Our bulbs blew out frequently. We replaced them once a bulb blew out.”
Moral of the story:
1. It is simple to maintain brightness , change the bulbs regularly.
2. To brightening up everyday life : Endeavour to abandon unwholesome states of mind and make an effort to encourage wholesome states to grow.
Replied the mother : “Why?”
The child said : “ Because you did not get angry today .”
Moral of the story:
1. It is easy to possess beauty:- do not get angry.
2. Anger is temporary madness.
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A man attended an interview for a job.
Along the corridor, he picked up a piece and threw it into a dustbin.
The interviewer passed by and saw it.
This man got the job.
Moral of the story:
Live with good habits, and you will be recognised.
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A small boy worked as an apprentice in a bicycle shop.
A man sent a bicycle for repair.
After repairing the bicycle, this boy cleaned up the bicycle and it looked like a new one.
Other apprentices laughed at him for doing redundant work.
The second day after the owner claimed the bicycle back, this boy was pinched and offered a job.
Moral of the story :
1.Go the extra mile to be successful.
2. Doing more gains more & Doing less loses more.
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The owner of a farm asked his child to work everyday at the farm.
His friend said to him : “ You do not have to make your son work so hard. The crops would grow just as good.”
Owner of the farm replied: “ I am not cultivating my crops, but my child.”
Moral of the story:
1. A simple way to groom a child is to let him experience some hardships.
2. If not cut, jade would not turn into useful ware.
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A shop is always brightly lit up.
Someone asked : “What brand of bulb are you using ? It is so lasting.”
The shop owner replied : “Our bulbs blew out frequently. We replaced them once a bulb blew out.”
Moral of the story:
1. It is simple to maintain brightness , change the bulbs regularly.
2. To brightening up everyday life : Endeavour to abandon unwholesome states of mind and make an effort to encourage wholesome states to grow.
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Love starts with a smile, grows with a kiss, and ends with a tear. - Don't cry over anyone who won't cry over you.
- Good friends are hard to find, harder to leave, and impossible to forget.
- You can only go as far as you push.
- Actions speak louder than words.
- The hardest thing to do is watch the one you love, love somebody else.
- Don't let the past hold you back; you're missing the good stuff.
- Life's short. If you don't look around once in a while, you might miss it.
- A best friend is like a four leaf clover: hard to find and lucky to have.
- If you think that the world means nothing, think again. You might mean the world to someone else.
- When it hurts to look back, and you're scared to look ahead, you can look beside you and your best friend will be there
- True friendship never ends.
- Friends are forever.
- Good friends are like stars....You don't always see them, but you know they are always there.
- Don't frown. You never know who is falling in love with your smile.
- What do you do when the only person who can make you stop crying is the person who made you cry?
- NOBODY IS PERFECT UNTIL YOU FALL IN LOVE WITH THEM. (Isn't that the truth?)
- Everything is okay in the end. If it's not okay, then it's not the end.
Most people walk in and out of you life. But only True friends leave footprints in your heart.
Send this on to everyone special in your life, even the people who really make you mad sometimes. Whether we realize it or not, everyone we know is very special to us.
When we look back on our younger years, we will remember the people who went to school with us, the people who made us laugh, the people who hung out with us when nobody else would, and the people who made our lives much better simply by being a part of it.
There may be somebody who is thinking about you RIGHT NOW and wishing that you were around. That's the wonderful thing about friendship-you always feel loved and cared about.
The most important thing to remember is... Always appreciate the friends that you have.
A fight may come and go very easily, but a friendship could last forever.
Two factory workers are talking.
Woman: I can make the boss give me the day off.
Man: And how would you do that?
Woman: “Just wait and see.” She then hangs upside-down from the ceiling.
Boss comes in: What are you doing?
Woman: I’m a light bulb.
Boss: You’ve been working so much that you’ve gone crazy. I think you need to take the day off.
The man starts to follow her and the boss says: Where are you going?
The man says: I’m going home, too. I can’t work in the dark.
A little girl came home from school and said to her mother, “Mommy, today in school I was punished for something that I didn’t do.”
The mother exclaimed, “But that’s terrible! I’m going to have a talk with your teacher about this … by the way, what was it that you didn’t do?”
The little girl replied, “My homework.”
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The students were lined up in the cafeteria for lunch. At the head of the table was a large pile of apples. The nun made a note, and posted on the apple tray: “Take only ONE. God is watching.”
Moving further along the lunch line, at the other end of the table was a large pile of chocolate chip cookies. A child had written a note, “Take all you want. God is watching the apples.”
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Student: A heart attack.
Woman: I can make the boss give me the day off.
Man: And how would you do that?
Woman: “Just wait and see.” She then hangs upside-down from the ceiling.
Boss comes in: What are you doing?
Woman: I’m a light bulb.
Boss: You’ve been working so much that you’ve gone crazy. I think you need to take the day off.
The man starts to follow her and the boss says: Where are you going?
The man says: I’m going home, too. I can’t work in the dark.
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A little girl came home from school and said to her mother, “Mommy, today in school I was punished for something that I didn’t do.”
The mother exclaimed, “But that’s terrible! I’m going to have a talk with your teacher about this … by the way, what was it that you didn’t do?”
The little girl replied, “My homework.”
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The students were lined up in the cafeteria for lunch. At the head of the table was a large pile of apples. The nun made a note, and posted on the apple tray: “Take only ONE. God is watching.”
Moving further along the lunch line, at the other end of the table was a large pile of chocolate chip cookies. A child had written a note, “Take all you want. God is watching the apples.”
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Teacher: Here is a math problem. If your dad earned $300 dollars a week and he gave your mother half, what should he have?
Student: A heart attack.
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Once upon a time all feelings and emotions went to a coastal island for a vacation. According to their nature, each was having a good time. Suddenly, a warning of an impending storm was announced and everyone was advised to evacuate the island.
The announcement caused sudden panic. All rushed to their boats. Even damaged boats were quickly repaired and commissioned for duty.
Yet, Love did not wish to flee quickly. There was so much to do. But as the clouds darkened, Love realised it was time to leave. Alas, there were no boats to spare. Love looked around with hope.
Just then Prosperity passed by in a luxurious boat. Love shouted, “Prosperity, could you please take me in your boat?”
“No,” replied Prosperity, “my boat is full of precious possessions, gold and silver. There is no place for you.”
A little later Vanity came by in a beautiful boat. Again Love shouted, “Could you help me, Vanity? I am stranded and need a lift. Please take me with you.”
Vanity responded haughtily, “No, I cannot take you with me. My boat will get soiled with your muddy feet.”
Sorrow passed by after some time. Again, Love asked for help. But it was to no avail. “No, I cannot take you with me. I am so sad. I want to be by myself.”
When Happiness passed by a few minutes later, Love again called for help. But Happiness was so happy that it did not look around, hardly concerned about anyone.
Love was growing restless and dejected. Just then somebody called out, “Come Love, I will take you with me.” Love did not know who was being so magnanimous, but jumped on to the boat, greatly relieved that she would reach a safe place.
On getting off the boat, Love met Knowledge. Puzzled, Love inquired, “Knowledge, do you know who so generously gave me a lift just when no one else wished to help?”
Knowledge smiled, “Oh, that was Time.”
“And why would Time stop to pick me and take me to safety?” Love wondered.
Knowledge smiled with deep wisdom and replied, “Because only Time knows your true greatness and what you are capable of. Only Love can bring peace and great happiness in this world.”
“The important message is that when we are prosperous, we overlook love. When we feel important, we forget love. Even in happiness and sorrow we forget love. Only with time do we realize the importance of love. Why wait that long? Why not make love a part of your life today?”
The announcement caused sudden panic. All rushed to their boats. Even damaged boats were quickly repaired and commissioned for duty.
Yet, Love did not wish to flee quickly. There was so much to do. But as the clouds darkened, Love realised it was time to leave. Alas, there were no boats to spare. Love looked around with hope.
Just then Prosperity passed by in a luxurious boat. Love shouted, “Prosperity, could you please take me in your boat?”
“No,” replied Prosperity, “my boat is full of precious possessions, gold and silver. There is no place for you.”
A little later Vanity came by in a beautiful boat. Again Love shouted, “Could you help me, Vanity? I am stranded and need a lift. Please take me with you.”
Vanity responded haughtily, “No, I cannot take you with me. My boat will get soiled with your muddy feet.”
Sorrow passed by after some time. Again, Love asked for help. But it was to no avail. “No, I cannot take you with me. I am so sad. I want to be by myself.”
When Happiness passed by a few minutes later, Love again called for help. But Happiness was so happy that it did not look around, hardly concerned about anyone.
Love was growing restless and dejected. Just then somebody called out, “Come Love, I will take you with me.” Love did not know who was being so magnanimous, but jumped on to the boat, greatly relieved that she would reach a safe place.
On getting off the boat, Love met Knowledge. Puzzled, Love inquired, “Knowledge, do you know who so generously gave me a lift just when no one else wished to help?”
Knowledge smiled, “Oh, that was Time.”
“And why would Time stop to pick me and take me to safety?” Love wondered.
Knowledge smiled with deep wisdom and replied, “Because only Time knows your true greatness and what you are capable of. Only Love can bring peace and great happiness in this world.”
“The important message is that when we are prosperous, we overlook love. When we feel important, we forget love. Even in happiness and sorrow we forget love. Only with time do we realize the importance of love. Why wait that long? Why not make love a part of your life today?”
Chuan and Jing joined a wholesale company together just after graduation. Both worked very hard.
After several years, the boss promoted Jing to sales executive but Chuan remained a sales rep. One day Chuan could not take it anymore, tender resignation to the boss and complained the boss did not value hard working staff, but only promoted those who flattered him.
The boss knew that Chuan worked very hard for the years, but in order to help Chuan realize the difference between him and Jing, the boss asked Chuan to do the following. Go and find out anyone selling water melon in the market? Chuan returned and said yes. The boss asked how much per kg? Chuan went back to the market to ask and returned to inform boss the $12 per kg.
Boss told Chuan, I will ask Jing the same question? Jing went, returned and said, boss, only one person selling water melon. $12 per kg, $100 for 10 kg, he has inventory of 340 melons. On the table 58 melons, every melon weighs about 15 kg, bought from the South two days ago, they are fresh and red, good quality.
Chuan was very impressed and realized the difference between himself and Jing. He decided not to resign but to learn from Jing.
My dear friends, a more successful person is more observant, think more and understand in depth. For the same matter, a more successful person sees several years ahead, while you see only tomorrow. The difference between a year and a day is 365 times, how could you win?
Think! how far have you seen ahead in your life? How thoughtful in depth are you?
After several years, the boss promoted Jing to sales executive but Chuan remained a sales rep. One day Chuan could not take it anymore, tender resignation to the boss and complained the boss did not value hard working staff, but only promoted those who flattered him.
The boss knew that Chuan worked very hard for the years, but in order to help Chuan realize the difference between him and Jing, the boss asked Chuan to do the following. Go and find out anyone selling water melon in the market? Chuan returned and said yes. The boss asked how much per kg? Chuan went back to the market to ask and returned to inform boss the $12 per kg.
Boss told Chuan, I will ask Jing the same question? Jing went, returned and said, boss, only one person selling water melon. $12 per kg, $100 for 10 kg, he has inventory of 340 melons. On the table 58 melons, every melon weighs about 15 kg, bought from the South two days ago, they are fresh and red, good quality.
Chuan was very impressed and realized the difference between himself and Jing. He decided not to resign but to learn from Jing.
My dear friends, a more successful person is more observant, think more and understand in depth. For the same matter, a more successful person sees several years ahead, while you see only tomorrow. The difference between a year and a day is 365 times, how could you win?
Think! how far have you seen ahead in your life? How thoughtful in depth are you?
Foolish people with all their other thoughts, have this one too: They are always getting ready to live, but never living.
Your success will start when you begin to pursue it. To reach your goal or to attain success, you don’t need to know all of the answers in advance. You just need to have a clear idea of what your goal is.
Don’t procrastinate when faced with difficult problems. Break your problems into parts, and handle one part at a time.
Develop tendencies toward taking action. You can make something happen right now. Divide your big plan into small steps and take that first step right away.
Everyone who ever got where they are had to begin where they were. Your big opportunity is where you are right now.
A journey of a thousand miles begins with one step. Take it.
Your success will start when you begin to pursue it. To reach your goal or to attain success, you don’t need to know all of the answers in advance. You just need to have a clear idea of what your goal is.
Don’t procrastinate when faced with difficult problems. Break your problems into parts, and handle one part at a time.
Develop tendencies toward taking action. You can make something happen right now. Divide your big plan into small steps and take that first step right away.
Everyone who ever got where they are had to begin where they were. Your big opportunity is where you are right now.
A journey of a thousand miles begins with one step. Take it.
Barefoot and dirty, the girl just sat and watched the people go by. She never tried to speak, she never said a word. Many people passed, but never did one person stop.
Just so happens the next day I decided to go back to the park, curious if the little girl would still be there.
Right in the very spot as she was yesterday she sat perched on high, with the saddest look in her eyes. Today I was to make my own move and walk over to the little girl. As we all know a park full of strange people is not a place for young children to play.
As I began walking towards her I could see the back of the little girl’s dress indicated a deformity. I figured that was the reason the people just passed by and made no effort to help. As I got closer, the little girl slightly lowered her eyes to avoid my intent stare. I could see the shape of her back more clearly. It was grotesquely shaped in a humped over form. I smiled to let her know it was ok, I was there to help, to talk.
I sat down beside her and opened with a simple Hello. The little girl acted shocked and stammered a hi after a long stare into my eyes. I smiled and she shyly smiled back. We talked ’til darkness fell and the park was completely empty. Everyone was gone and we were alone. I asked the girl why she was so sad. The little girl looked at me and with a sad face said “Because I’m different.”
I immediately said “that you are!” and smiled. The little girl acted even sadder, she said, “I know.” “Little girl,” I said, “you remind me of an angel, she stood to her feet, and said, “Really?”
“Yes, ma’am, you’re like a little guardian angel sent to watch over all those people walking by.” She nodded her head yes and smiled, and with that she spread her wings and said with a twinkle in her eye, “I am.” I was speechless, sure I was seeing things. She said, “And since you thought of someone other than yourself, my job here is done.”
Immediately I stood to my feet and said, “Wait, so why did no one stop to help an angel?” She looked at me and smiled, “You’re the only one who could see me, and you believe it in your heart.” And She was gone. And with that my life was changed dramatically.
So, when you think you’re all you have, remember, there is an angel always watching over you.
Pass this to everyone that means anything at all to you…. to let them know you’re glad they care about you… like the story says we all need someone.
Everyone of your friends is an angel in their own.
Just so happens the next day I decided to go back to the park, curious if the little girl would still be there.
Right in the very spot as she was yesterday she sat perched on high, with the saddest look in her eyes. Today I was to make my own move and walk over to the little girl. As we all know a park full of strange people is not a place for young children to play.
As I began walking towards her I could see the back of the little girl’s dress indicated a deformity. I figured that was the reason the people just passed by and made no effort to help. As I got closer, the little girl slightly lowered her eyes to avoid my intent stare. I could see the shape of her back more clearly. It was grotesquely shaped in a humped over form. I smiled to let her know it was ok, I was there to help, to talk.
I sat down beside her and opened with a simple Hello. The little girl acted shocked and stammered a hi after a long stare into my eyes. I smiled and she shyly smiled back. We talked ’til darkness fell and the park was completely empty. Everyone was gone and we were alone. I asked the girl why she was so sad. The little girl looked at me and with a sad face said “Because I’m different.”
I immediately said “that you are!” and smiled. The little girl acted even sadder, she said, “I know.” “Little girl,” I said, “you remind me of an angel, she stood to her feet, and said, “Really?”
“Yes, ma’am, you’re like a little guardian angel sent to watch over all those people walking by.” She nodded her head yes and smiled, and with that she spread her wings and said with a twinkle in her eye, “I am.” I was speechless, sure I was seeing things. She said, “And since you thought of someone other than yourself, my job here is done.”
Immediately I stood to my feet and said, “Wait, so why did no one stop to help an angel?” She looked at me and smiled, “You’re the only one who could see me, and you believe it in your heart.” And She was gone. And with that my life was changed dramatically.
So, when you think you’re all you have, remember, there is an angel always watching over you.
Pass this to everyone that means anything at all to you…. to let them know you’re glad they care about you… like the story says we all need someone.
Everyone of your friends is an angel in their own.
I’ve learned-
that you cannot make someone love you. All you can do is be someone who can be loved. The rest is up to them.
I’ve learned-
that no matter how much I care, some people just don’t care back.
I’ve learned-
that it takes years to build up trust, and only seconds to destroy it.
I’ve learned-
that no matter how good a friend is, they’re going to hurt you every once in a while and you must forgive them for that.
I’ve learned-
that it’s not what you have in your life but who you have in your life that counts.
I’ve learned-
that you should never ruin an apology with an excuse.
I’ve learned-
that you can get by on charm for about fifteen minutes. After that, you’d better know something.
I’ve learned-
that you shouldn’t compare yourself to the best others can do.
I’ve learned-
that you can do something in an instant that will give you heartache for life.
I’ve learned-
that it’s taking me a long time to become the person I want to be.
I’ve learned-
that you should always leave loved ones with loving words. It may be the last time you see them.
I’ve learned-
that you can keep going long after you can’t.
I’ve learned-
that we are responsible for what we do, no matter how we feel.
I’ve learned-
that either you control your attitude or it controls you.
I’ve learned-
that regardless of how hot and steamy a relationship is at first, the passion fades and there had better be something else to take its place.
I’ve learned-
that heroes are the people who do what has to be done when it needs to be done, regardless of the consequences.
I’ve learned-
that money is a lousy way of keeping score.
I’ve learned-
that my best friend and I can do anything or nothing and have the best time.
I’ve learned-
that sometimes the people you expect to kick you when you’re down will be the ones to help you get back up.
I’ve learned-
that sometimes when I’m angry I have the right to be angry, but that doesn’t give me the right to be cruel.
I’ve learned-
that true friendship continues to grow, even over the longest distance. Same goes for true love.
I’ve learned-
that just because someone doesn’t love you the way you want them to doesn’t mean they don’t love you with all they have.
I’ve learned-
that maturity has more to do with what types of experiences you’ve had and what you’ve learned from them and less to do with how many birthdays you’ve celebrated.
I’ve learned-
that you should never tell a child their dreams are unlikely or outlandish. Few things are more humiliating, and what a tragedy it would be if they believed it.
I’ve learned-
that your family won’t always be there for you. It may seem funny, but people you aren’t related to can take care of you and love you and teach you to trust people again. Families aren’t biological.
I’ve learned-
that it isn’t always enough to be forgiven by others. Sometimes you are to learn to forgive yourself.
I’ve learned-
that no matter how bad your heart is broken the world doesn’t stop for your grief.
I’ve learned-
that our background and circumstances may have influenced who we are, but we are responsible for who we become.
I’ve learned-
that a rich person is not the one who has the most, but is one who needs the least.
I’ve learned-
that just because two people argue, it doesn’t mean they don’t love each other. And just because they don’t argue, it doesn’t mean they do.
I’ve learned-
that we don’t have to change friends if we understand that friends change.
I’ve learned-
that you shouldn’t be so eager to find out a secret. It could change your life forever.
I’ve learned-
that two people can look at the exact same thing and see something totally different.
I’ve learned-
that no matter how you try to protect your children, they will eventually get hurt and you will hurt in the process.
I’ve learned-
that even when you think you have no more to give, when a friend cries out to you, you will find the strength to help.
I’ve learned-
that credentials on the wall do not make you a decent human being.
I’ve learned-
that the people you care about most in life are taken from you too soon.
I’ve learned-
that it’s hard to determine where to draw the line between being nice and not hurting people’s feelings, and standing up for what you believe.
I’ve learned-
that people will forget what you said, and people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.
that you cannot make someone love you. All you can do is be someone who can be loved. The rest is up to them.
I’ve learned-
that no matter how much I care, some people just don’t care back.
I’ve learned-
that it takes years to build up trust, and only seconds to destroy it.
I’ve learned-
that no matter how good a friend is, they’re going to hurt you every once in a while and you must forgive them for that.
I’ve learned-
that it’s not what you have in your life but who you have in your life that counts.
I’ve learned-
that you should never ruin an apology with an excuse.
I’ve learned-
that you can get by on charm for about fifteen minutes. After that, you’d better know something.
I’ve learned-
that you shouldn’t compare yourself to the best others can do.
I’ve learned-
that you can do something in an instant that will give you heartache for life.
I’ve learned-
that it’s taking me a long time to become the person I want to be.
I’ve learned-
that you should always leave loved ones with loving words. It may be the last time you see them.
I’ve learned-
that you can keep going long after you can’t.
I’ve learned-
that we are responsible for what we do, no matter how we feel.
I’ve learned-
that either you control your attitude or it controls you.
I’ve learned-
that regardless of how hot and steamy a relationship is at first, the passion fades and there had better be something else to take its place.
I’ve learned-
that heroes are the people who do what has to be done when it needs to be done, regardless of the consequences.
I’ve learned-
that money is a lousy way of keeping score.
I’ve learned-
that my best friend and I can do anything or nothing and have the best time.
I’ve learned-
that sometimes the people you expect to kick you when you’re down will be the ones to help you get back up.
I’ve learned-
that sometimes when I’m angry I have the right to be angry, but that doesn’t give me the right to be cruel.
I’ve learned-
that true friendship continues to grow, even over the longest distance. Same goes for true love.
I’ve learned-
that just because someone doesn’t love you the way you want them to doesn’t mean they don’t love you with all they have.
I’ve learned-
that maturity has more to do with what types of experiences you’ve had and what you’ve learned from them and less to do with how many birthdays you’ve celebrated.
I’ve learned-
that you should never tell a child their dreams are unlikely or outlandish. Few things are more humiliating, and what a tragedy it would be if they believed it.
I’ve learned-
that your family won’t always be there for you. It may seem funny, but people you aren’t related to can take care of you and love you and teach you to trust people again. Families aren’t biological.
I’ve learned-
that it isn’t always enough to be forgiven by others. Sometimes you are to learn to forgive yourself.
I’ve learned-
that no matter how bad your heart is broken the world doesn’t stop for your grief.
I’ve learned-
that our background and circumstances may have influenced who we are, but we are responsible for who we become.
I’ve learned-
that a rich person is not the one who has the most, but is one who needs the least.
I’ve learned-
that just because two people argue, it doesn’t mean they don’t love each other. And just because they don’t argue, it doesn’t mean they do.
I’ve learned-
that we don’t have to change friends if we understand that friends change.
I’ve learned-
that you shouldn’t be so eager to find out a secret. It could change your life forever.
I’ve learned-
that two people can look at the exact same thing and see something totally different.
I’ve learned-
that no matter how you try to protect your children, they will eventually get hurt and you will hurt in the process.
I’ve learned-
that even when you think you have no more to give, when a friend cries out to you, you will find the strength to help.
I’ve learned-
that credentials on the wall do not make you a decent human being.
I’ve learned-
that the people you care about most in life are taken from you too soon.
I’ve learned-
that it’s hard to determine where to draw the line between being nice and not hurting people’s feelings, and standing up for what you believe.
I’ve learned-
that people will forget what you said, and people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.
There was a blind girl who hated herself just because she’s blind. She hated everyone, except her loving boyfriend. He’s always there for her. She said that if she could only see the world, she would marry her boyfriend.
One day, someone donated a pair of eyes to her and then she can see everything, including her boyfriend. Her boyfriend asked her, “now that you can see the world, will you marry me?” The girl was shocked when she saw that her boyfriend is blind too, and refused to marry him. Her boyfriend walked away in tears, and later wrote a letter to her saying. “Just take care of my eyes dear.”
This is how human brain changes when the status changed. Only few remember what life was before, and who’s always been there even in the most painful situations.
Life is A Gift.
Today before you think of saying an unkind word – Think of someone who can’t speak.
Before you complain about the taste of your food – Think of someone who has nothing to eat.
Before you complain about your husband or wife – Think of someone ho’s crying out for a companion.
Today before you complain about life – Think of someone who went too early to heaven/hell.
Before you complain about your children – Think of someone who desires children but they’re barren.
Before you argue about your dirty house, someone didn’t clean or sweep – Think of the people who are living in the streets.
Before whining about the distance you drive – Think of someone who walks the same distance with their feet.
And when you are tired and complain about your job – Think of the unemployed, the disabled and those who wished they had your job.
But before you think of pointing the finger or condemning another – Remember that not one of us are without sin and we all answer to one maker.
And when depressing thoughts seem to get you down – Put a smile on your face and thank — you’re alive and still around
Life is a gift – Live it, Enjoy it, Celebrate it, And Fulfill it.
One day, someone donated a pair of eyes to her and then she can see everything, including her boyfriend. Her boyfriend asked her, “now that you can see the world, will you marry me?” The girl was shocked when she saw that her boyfriend is blind too, and refused to marry him. Her boyfriend walked away in tears, and later wrote a letter to her saying. “Just take care of my eyes dear.”
This is how human brain changes when the status changed. Only few remember what life was before, and who’s always been there even in the most painful situations.
Life is A Gift.
Today before you think of saying an unkind word – Think of someone who can’t speak.
Before you complain about the taste of your food – Think of someone who has nothing to eat.
Before you complain about your husband or wife – Think of someone ho’s crying out for a companion.
Today before you complain about life – Think of someone who went too early to heaven/hell.
Before you complain about your children – Think of someone who desires children but they’re barren.
Before you argue about your dirty house, someone didn’t clean or sweep – Think of the people who are living in the streets.
Before whining about the distance you drive – Think of someone who walks the same distance with their feet.
And when you are tired and complain about your job – Think of the unemployed, the disabled and those who wished they had your job.
But before you think of pointing the finger or condemning another – Remember that not one of us are without sin and we all answer to one maker.
And when depressing thoughts seem to get you down – Put a smile on your face and thank — you’re alive and still around
Life is a gift – Live it, Enjoy it, Celebrate it, And Fulfill it.
A philosophy professor stood before his class with some items on the table in front of him. When the class began, wordlessly he picked up a very large and empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with rocks, about 2 inches in diameter.
He then asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.
So the professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar. He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles, of course, rolled into the open areas between the rocks.
He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They agreed it was.
The professor picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of course, the sand filled up everything else.
He then asked once more if the jar was full. The students responded with a unanimous “Yes.”
“Now,” said the professor, “I want you to recognize that this jar represents your life. The rocks are the important things – your family, your partner, your health, your children – things that if everything else was lost and only they remained, your life would still be full.
The pebbles are the other things that matter – like your job, your house, your car.
The sand is everything else. The small stuff.”
“If you put the sand into the jar first,” he continued “there is no room for the pebbles or the rocks. The same goes for your life.
If you spend all your time and energy on the small stuff, you will never have room for the things that are important to you. Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Play with your children. Take your partner out dancing. There will always be time to go to work, clean the house, give a dinner party and fix the disposal.
Take care of the rocks first – the things that really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand.”
He then asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.
So the professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar. He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles, of course, rolled into the open areas between the rocks.
He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They agreed it was.
The professor picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of course, the sand filled up everything else.
He then asked once more if the jar was full. The students responded with a unanimous “Yes.”
“Now,” said the professor, “I want you to recognize that this jar represents your life. The rocks are the important things – your family, your partner, your health, your children – things that if everything else was lost and only they remained, your life would still be full.
The pebbles are the other things that matter – like your job, your house, your car.
The sand is everything else. The small stuff.”
“If you put the sand into the jar first,” he continued “there is no room for the pebbles or the rocks. The same goes for your life.
If you spend all your time and energy on the small stuff, you will never have room for the things that are important to you. Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Play with your children. Take your partner out dancing. There will always be time to go to work, clean the house, give a dinner party and fix the disposal.
Take care of the rocks first – the things that really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand.”
One day, a poor boy who was selling goods from door to door to pay his way through school, found he had only one thin dime left, and he was hungry. He decided he would ask for a meal at the next house. However, he lost his nerve when a lovely young woman opened the door. Instead of a meal he asked for a drink of water. She thought he looked hungry so brought him a large glass of milk. He drank it slowly, and then asked, “How much do I owe you?” “You don’t owe me anything,” she replied. “Mother has taught us never to accept pay for a kindness.” He said, “Then I thank you from my heart.”
As Howard Kelly left that house, he not only felt stronger physically, but his faith in God and man was strong also. He had been ready to give up and quit.
Year’s later that young woman became critically ill. The local doctors were baffled. They finally sent her to the big city, where they called in specialists to study her rare disease. Dr. Howard Kelly was called in for the consultation. When he heard the name of the town she came from, a strange light filled his eyes. Immediately he rose and went down the hall of the hospital to her room. Dressed in his doctor’s gown he went in to see her. He recognized her at once. He went back to the consultation room determined to do his best to save her life. From that day he gave special attention to the case.
After a long struggle, the battle was won. Dr. Kelly requested the business office to pass the final bill to him for approval. He looked at it, then wrote something on the edge and the bill was sent to her room. She feared to open it, for she was sure it would take the rest of her life to pay for it all. Finally she looked, and something caught her attention on the side of the bill. She began to read the following words:
“Paid in full with one glass of milk”
Signed, Dr. Howard Kelly.
As Howard Kelly left that house, he not only felt stronger physically, but his faith in God and man was strong also. He had been ready to give up and quit.
Year’s later that young woman became critically ill. The local doctors were baffled. They finally sent her to the big city, where they called in specialists to study her rare disease. Dr. Howard Kelly was called in for the consultation. When he heard the name of the town she came from, a strange light filled his eyes. Immediately he rose and went down the hall of the hospital to her room. Dressed in his doctor’s gown he went in to see her. He recognized her at once. He went back to the consultation room determined to do his best to save her life. From that day he gave special attention to the case.
After a long struggle, the battle was won. Dr. Kelly requested the business office to pass the final bill to him for approval. He looked at it, then wrote something on the edge and the bill was sent to her room. She feared to open it, for she was sure it would take the rest of her life to pay for it all. Finally she looked, and something caught her attention on the side of the bill. She began to read the following words:
“Paid in full with one glass of milk”
Signed, Dr. Howard Kelly.
A cosmic god had a horse. The horse was beautiful and also it had many good qualities. But it wanted to be more perfect in every way. It especially wanted to become beauty unparalleled.
One day the horse said to the cosmic god, “0 Lord, you have given me beauty. You have given me other good qualities. I am so grateful to you. But how I wish you could make me more beautiful. I would be extremely, extremely grateful if you could make me more beautiful.”
The cosmic god said, “I am more than ready to make you more beautiful. Tell me in what way you want to be changed.”
The horse said, “It seems to me that I am not well proportioned. My neck is too short. If you can make my neck a little longer, my upper body will be infinitely more beautiful. And if you can make my legs much longer and thinner, then I will look infinitely more beautiful in my lower body.”
The cosmic god said, “Amen!” Then immediately he made a camel appear in place of the horse. The horse was so disheartened that it started to cry, “0 Lord, I wanted to become more beautiful. In what way is this kind of outer form more beautiful?”
The cosmic god said, “This is exactly what you asked for. You have become a camel.”
The horse cried, “Oh no, I do not want to become a camell I wish to remain a horse. As a horse, everybody appreciated my good qualities. Nobody will appreciate me as a camel.”
The cosmic god said, “Never try to achieve or receive more than I have given you. If you want to lead a desire-life, then at every moment you will want more and more. But you have no idea what the outcome will be. If you cry for a longer neck and legs, this is what will happen. Each thing in my creation has its own good qualities. The camel is not as beautiful as you are, but it carries heavy loads and has a tremendous sense of responsibility.
One day the horse said to the cosmic god, “0 Lord, you have given me beauty. You have given me other good qualities. I am so grateful to you. But how I wish you could make me more beautiful. I would be extremely, extremely grateful if you could make me more beautiful.”
The cosmic god said, “I am more than ready to make you more beautiful. Tell me in what way you want to be changed.”
The horse said, “It seems to me that I am not well proportioned. My neck is too short. If you can make my neck a little longer, my upper body will be infinitely more beautiful. And if you can make my legs much longer and thinner, then I will look infinitely more beautiful in my lower body.”
The cosmic god said, “Amen!” Then immediately he made a camel appear in place of the horse. The horse was so disheartened that it started to cry, “0 Lord, I wanted to become more beautiful. In what way is this kind of outer form more beautiful?”
The cosmic god said, “This is exactly what you asked for. You have become a camel.”
The horse cried, “Oh no, I do not want to become a camell I wish to remain a horse. As a horse, everybody appreciated my good qualities. Nobody will appreciate me as a camel.”
The cosmic god said, “Never try to achieve or receive more than I have given you. If you want to lead a desire-life, then at every moment you will want more and more. But you have no idea what the outcome will be. If you cry for a longer neck and legs, this is what will happen. Each thing in my creation has its own good qualities. The camel is not as beautiful as you are, but it carries heavy loads and has a tremendous sense of responsibility.
There once was a little boy who had a bad temper. His father gave him a bag of nails and told him that every time he lost his temper, he must hammer a nail into the fence.
The first day the boy had driven 37 nails into the fence. Over the next few weeks as he learned to control his anger, the number of nails hammered daily, gradually dwindled down. He discovered it was easier to hold his temper than to drive those nails into the fence. Finally the day came when the boy didn’t lose his temper at all. He told his father about it and the father suggested that the boy now pull out one nail for each day that he was able to hold his temper.
The days passed and the young boy was finally able to tell his father that all the nails were gone. The father took his son by the hand and led him to the fence. He said “you have done well, my son, but look at the holes in the fence. The fence will never be the same. When you say things in anger, they leave a scar just like this one.”
You can put a knife in a man and draw it out. It won’t matter how many times you say I’m sorry, the wound is still there.
Make sure you control your temper the next time you are tempted to say something you will regret later.
The first day the boy had driven 37 nails into the fence. Over the next few weeks as he learned to control his anger, the number of nails hammered daily, gradually dwindled down. He discovered it was easier to hold his temper than to drive those nails into the fence. Finally the day came when the boy didn’t lose his temper at all. He told his father about it and the father suggested that the boy now pull out one nail for each day that he was able to hold his temper.
The days passed and the young boy was finally able to tell his father that all the nails were gone. The father took his son by the hand and led him to the fence. He said “you have done well, my son, but look at the holes in the fence. The fence will never be the same. When you say things in anger, they leave a scar just like this one.”
You can put a knife in a man and draw it out. It won’t matter how many times you say I’m sorry, the wound is still there.
Make sure you control your temper the next time you are tempted to say something you will regret later.
An old man lived alone in Minnesota. He wanted to spade his potato garden, but it was very hard work. His only son, who would have helped him, was in prison. The old man wrote a letter to his son and mentioned his situation:
Shortly, the old man received this telegram: ‘For Heaven’s sake, Dad, don’t dig up the garden!! That’s where I buried the GUNS!!’
At 4 a.m. the next morning, a dozen FBI agents and local police officers showed up and dug up the entire garden without finding any guns.
Confused, the old man wrote another note to his son telling him what had happened, and asked him what to do next.
His son’s reply was: ‘Go ahead and plant your potatoes, Dad. It’s the best I could do for you, from here.’
MORAL: NO MATTER WHERE YOU ARE IN THE WORLD, IF YOU HAVE DECIDED TO DO SOMETHING DEEP FROM YOUR HEART, YOU CAN DO IT. IT IS THE THOUGHT THAT MATTERS, NOT WHERE YOU ARE OR WHERE THE PERSON IS.
Dear Son,
I am feeling pretty bad because it looks like I won’t be able to plant my potato garden this year. I hate to miss doing the garden because your mother always loved planting time. I’m just getting too old to be digging up a garden plot. If you were here, all my troubles would be over. I know you would dig the plot for me, if you weren’t in prison.
Love,
Dad
Shortly, the old man received this telegram: ‘For Heaven’s sake, Dad, don’t dig up the garden!! That’s where I buried the GUNS!!’
At 4 a.m. the next morning, a dozen FBI agents and local police officers showed up and dug up the entire garden without finding any guns.
Confused, the old man wrote another note to his son telling him what had happened, and asked him what to do next.
His son’s reply was: ‘Go ahead and plant your potatoes, Dad. It’s the best I could do for you, from here.’
MORAL: NO MATTER WHERE YOU ARE IN THE WORLD, IF YOU HAVE DECIDED TO DO SOMETHING DEEP FROM YOUR HEART, YOU CAN DO IT. IT IS THE THOUGHT THAT MATTERS, NOT WHERE YOU ARE OR WHERE THE PERSON IS.
A mouse looked through the crack in the wall to see the farmer and his wife open a package. “What food might this contain?” the mouse wondered. He was devastated to discover it was a mousetrap.
Retreating to the farmyard, the mouse proclaimed the warning: “There is a mousetrap in the house! There is a mousetrap in the house!”
The chicken clucked and scratched, raised her head and said “Mr. Mouse, I can tell this is a grave concern to you, but it is of no consequence to me. I cannot be bothered by it.”
The mouse turned to the pig and told him “There is a mousetrap in the house! There is a mousetrap in the house!” The pig sympathized, but said “I am so very sorry, Mr. Mouse, but there is nothing I can do about it but pray. Be assured you are in my prayers.”
The mouse turned to the cow and said “There is a mousetrap in the house! There is a mousetrap in the house!” The cow said “Wow, Mr. Mouse. I’m sorry for you, but it’s no skin off my nose.”
So, the mouse returned to the house, head down and dejected, to face the farmer’s mousetrap alone.
That very night a sound was heard throughout the house – like the sound of a mousetrap catching its prey. The farmer’s wife rushed to see what was caught. In the darkness, she did not see it was a venomous snake whose tail the trap had caught. The snake bit the farmer’s wife. The farmer rushed her to the hospital and she returned home with a fever.
Everyone knows you treat a fever with fresh chicken soup, so the farmer took his hatchet to the farmyard for the soup’s main ingredient. But his wife’s sickness continued, so friends and neighbors came to sit with her around the clock. To feed them, the farmer butchered the pig. The farmer’s wife did not get well; she died. So many! people came for her funeral, the farmer had the cow slaughtered to provide enough meat for all of them.
The mouse looked upon it all from his crack in the wall with great sadness. So, the next time you hear someone is facing a problem and think it doesn’t concern you, remember: when one of us is threatened, we are all at risk. We are all involved in this journey called life. We must keep an eye out for one another and make an extra effort to encourage one another. Each of us is a vital thread in another person’s tapestry.
Once a fisherman was sitting near seashore, under the shadow of a tree smoking his beedi. Suddenly a rich businessman passing by approached him and enquired as to why he was sitting under a tree smoking and not working. To this the poor fisherman replied that he had caught enough fishes for the day.
Hearing this the rich man got angry and said: Why don’t you catch more fishes instead of sitting in shadow wasting your time?
Fisherman asked: What would I do by catching more fishes?
Businessman: You could catch more fishes, sell them and earn more money, and buy a bigger boat.
Fisherman: What would I do then?
Businessman: You could go fishing in deep waters and catch even more fishes and earn even more money.
Fisherman: What would I do then?
Businessman: You could buy many boats and employ many people to work for you and earn even more money.
Fisherman: What would I do then?
Businessman: You could become a rich businessman like me.
Fisherman: What would I do then?
Businessman: You could then enjoy your life peacefully.
Fisherman: What do you think I’m doing right now?
MORAL – You don’t need to wait for tomorrow to be happy and enjoy your life. You don’t even need to be more rich, more powerful to enjoy life. LIFE is at this moment, enjoy it fully.
As some great men have said “My riches consist not in extent of my possessions but in the fewness of my wants”.
Hearing this the rich man got angry and said: Why don’t you catch more fishes instead of sitting in shadow wasting your time?
Fisherman asked: What would I do by catching more fishes?
Businessman: You could catch more fishes, sell them and earn more money, and buy a bigger boat.
Fisherman: What would I do then?
Businessman: You could go fishing in deep waters and catch even more fishes and earn even more money.
Fisherman: What would I do then?
Businessman: You could buy many boats and employ many people to work for you and earn even more money.
Fisherman: What would I do then?
Businessman: You could become a rich businessman like me.
Fisherman: What would I do then?
Businessman: You could then enjoy your life peacefully.
Fisherman: What do you think I’m doing right now?
MORAL – You don’t need to wait for tomorrow to be happy and enjoy your life. You don’t even need to be more rich, more powerful to enjoy life. LIFE is at this moment, enjoy it fully.
As some great men have said “My riches consist not in extent of my possessions but in the fewness of my wants”.
One day, a father of a very wealthy family took his son on a trip to the country with the firm purpose of showing his son how poor people live. They spent a couple of days and nights on the farm of what would be considered a very poor family. On their return from their trip, the father asked his son, “How was the trip?”
“It was great, Dad.”
“Did you see how poor people live?” the father asked.
“Oh yeah,” said the son.
“So, tell me, what did you learn from the trip?” asked the father.
The son answered, “I saw that we have one dog and they had four. We have a pool that reaches to the middle of our garden, and they have a creek that has no end. We have imported lanterns in our garden, and they have the stars at night. Our patio reaches to the front yard, and they have the whole horizon. We have a small piece of land to live on, and they have fields that go beyond our sight. We have servants who serve us, but they serve others. We buy our food, but they grow theirs. We have walls around our property to protect us; they have friends to protect them.”
The boy’s father was speechless.
Then his son added, “Thanks, Dad, for showing me how poor we are.”
“It was great, Dad.”
“Did you see how poor people live?” the father asked.
“Oh yeah,” said the son.
“So, tell me, what did you learn from the trip?” asked the father.
The son answered, “I saw that we have one dog and they had four. We have a pool that reaches to the middle of our garden, and they have a creek that has no end. We have imported lanterns in our garden, and they have the stars at night. Our patio reaches to the front yard, and they have the whole horizon. We have a small piece of land to live on, and they have fields that go beyond our sight. We have servants who serve us, but they serve others. We buy our food, but they grow theirs. We have walls around our property to protect us; they have friends to protect them.”
The boy’s father was speechless.
Then his son added, “Thanks, Dad, for showing me how poor we are.”
An eagle was sitting on a tree resting, doing nothing. A small rabbit saw the eagle and asked him, "Can I also sit like you and do nothing?"
The eagle answered, "Sure , why not."
So the rabbit sat on the ground below the eagle and rested.
All of a sudden, a fox appeared, jumped on the rabbit and ate it.
Moral of the story: To be sitting and doing nothing, you must be sitting very, very high up.
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A little bird was flying south for the Winter. It was so cold the bird froze and fell to the ground into a large field.
While he was lying there, a cow came by and dropped some dung on him.
As the frozen bird lay there in the pile of cow dung, he began to realize how warm he was.
The dung was actually thawing him out!
He lay there all warm and happy, and soon began to sing for joy.
A passing cat heard the bird singing and came to investigate. Following the sound, the cat discovered the bird under the pile of cow dung, and promptly dug him out and ate him.
Morals of the story:
(1) Not everyone who shits on you is your enemy.
(2) Not everyone who gets you out of shit is your friend.
(3) And when you're in deep shit, it's best to keep your mouth shut!
The eagle answered, "Sure , why not."
So the rabbit sat on the ground below the eagle and rested.
All of a sudden, a fox appeared, jumped on the rabbit and ate it.
Moral of the story: To be sitting and doing nothing, you must be sitting very, very high up.
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A little bird was flying south for the Winter. It was so cold the bird froze and fell to the ground into a large field.
While he was lying there, a cow came by and dropped some dung on him.
As the frozen bird lay there in the pile of cow dung, he began to realize how warm he was.
The dung was actually thawing him out!
He lay there all warm and happy, and soon began to sing for joy.
A passing cat heard the bird singing and came to investigate. Following the sound, the cat discovered the bird under the pile of cow dung, and promptly dug him out and ate him.
Morals of the story:
(1) Not everyone who shits on you is your enemy.
(2) Not everyone who gets you out of shit is your friend.
(3) And when you're in deep shit, it's best to keep your mouth shut!
The story goes that some time ago, a man punished his 3-year-old daughter for wasting a roll of gold wrapping paper. Money was tight and he became infuriated when the child tried to decorate a box to put under the Christmas tree.
Nevertheless, the little girl brought the gift to her father the next morning and said, "This is for you, Daddy." He was embarrassed by his earlier overreaction, but his anger flared again when he found the box was empty.
He yelled at her, "Don't you know that when you give someone a present, there's supposed to be something inside it?"
The little girl looked up at him with tears in her eyes and said,"Oh, Daddy, it is not empty. I blew kisses into the box. All for you, Daddy."
The father was crushed. He put his arms around his little girl, and he begged for her forgiveness.
It is told that the man kept that gold box by his bed for years and whenever he was discouraged, he would take out an imaginary kiss and remember the love of the child who had put it there.
In a very real sense, each of us as humans have been given a gold container filled with unconditional love and kisses from our children, friends, family and God. There is no more precious possession anyone could hold.
Nevertheless, the little girl brought the gift to her father the next morning and said, "This is for you, Daddy." He was embarrassed by his earlier overreaction, but his anger flared again when he found the box was empty.
He yelled at her, "Don't you know that when you give someone a present, there's supposed to be something inside it?"
The little girl looked up at him with tears in her eyes and said,"Oh, Daddy, it is not empty. I blew kisses into the box. All for you, Daddy."
The father was crushed. He put his arms around his little girl, and he begged for her forgiveness.
It is told that the man kept that gold box by his bed for years and whenever he was discouraged, he would take out an imaginary kiss and remember the love of the child who had put it there.
In a very real sense, each of us as humans have been given a gold container filled with unconditional love and kisses from our children, friends, family and God. There is no more precious possession anyone could hold.
There is a curve called failure,
a loop called confusion,
speed bumps called friends,
caution lights called family, and
you will have flats called jobs.
But, if you have a spare called determination,
an engine called perseverance,
insurance called faith, and
a driver called God,
you will make it to a place called success!
a loop called confusion,
speed bumps called friends,
caution lights called family, and
you will have flats called jobs.
But, if you have a spare called determination,
an engine called perseverance,
insurance called faith, and
a driver called God,
you will make it to a place called success!
城府太深型。有些朋友韬光养晦，把自己包得很紧，相处几十年从不讲自己的想法，也很难挑出他的毛病。与这样的人相处，使人怀疑它的真意何在。
奉承献媚型。这样的朋友表明上十分热情，处处投你所好，骨子里另有所图，必须看清这类人的真面目。
惟利是图型。这类朋友是“万能胶”，粘上很麻烦。这种人占便宜没够，吃亏难受，占不到便宜就立马不理你。
搬弄是非型。有些人本事不大，搬弄是非的能力很大，好传闲言，甚至无中生有。一个团队中如果有一两个这样人物，很难保持团结。
口蜜腹剑型。这比搬弄是非更可怕。这种人当面把你当作挚友，但只要有损于他的一根毫发，马上翻脸。
轻诺寡信型。有些人当面大包大揽，过后啥事不办，毫无诚信，对这种人不可托付办事。
言不及义型。这类朋友兴之所至，高谈阔论，东拉西扯，言不及义，与这种人相处，毫无进益可言。
人走茶凉型。这种人常常是，你在职时，会百般奉承你；你一旦退休，立马不认账，又去找新的靠山。
过分亲密型。有些朋友好奇心盛，对别人的事情总要问个底朝天。与这种朋友相处，使人感觉很累。
过分冷淡型。有些人生性孤僻，不愿与人交际，常常你热情相交，他爱答不理。对这样的朋友还是相忘于江湖吧！
不论在生活中，还是在网上，人人都会有朋友。朋友是什么？朋友就是彼此有交情的人，彼此要好的人。友情是一种最纯洁、最高尚、最朴素、最平凡的感情，也是最浪漫、最动人、最坚实、最永恒的情感。人人都离不开友情。你可以没有爱情，但是你绝不能没有友情；一旦没有了友情，生活就不会有悦耳的和音，就死水一滩；友情无处不在，她伴随你左右，萦绕在你身边，和你共渡一生。
朋友是一种相遇。
大千世界，红尘滚滚，于芸芸众生、茫茫人海中，朋友能够彼此遇到，能够走到一起，彼此相互认识，相互了解，相互走近，实在是缘份。在人来人往，聚散分离的人生旅途中，在各自不同的生命轨迹上，在不同经历的心海中，能够彼此相遇、相聚、相逢，可以说是一种幸运，缘份不是时刻都会有的，应该珍惜得来不易的缘。
朋友是一种相知。
朋友相处是一种相互认可，相互仰慕，相互欣赏、相互感知的过程。对方的优点、长处、亮点、美感， 都会映在你脑海，尽收眼底，哪怕是朋友一点点的可贵，也会成为你向上的能量，成为你终身受益的动力和源泉。朋友的智慧、知识、能力、激情，是吸引你靠近的 磁力和力量。同时你的一切也是朋友认识和感知你的过程。
朋友是一种相契。
朋友就是彼此一种心灵的感应，是一种心照不宣的感悟。你的举手投足，一颦一笑，一言一行，哪怕是一个眼神、一个动作、一个背影、一个回眸，朋友都会心领神会，不需要彼此的解释，不需要多言，不需要废话，不需要张扬，都会心心相印的。那是一种最温柔、最惬意、最畅快、最美好的意境。
朋友是一种相伴。
朋友就是漫漫人生路上的彼此相扶、相承、相伴、相佐。她是你烦闷时送上的绵绵心语或大吼大叫，寂寞时的欢歌笑语或款款情意，快乐时的如痴如醉或痛快淋漓，得意时善意的一盆凉水。在倾诉和聆听中感知朋友深情，在交流和接触中不断握手和感激。
朋友是一种相助。
风雨人生路，朋友可以为你挡风寒，为你分忧愁，为你解除痛苦和困难，朋友时时会伸出友谊之手。她是你登高时的一把扶梯，是你受伤时的一剂良药，是你饥渴时的一碗白水，是你过河时的一叶扁舟；她是金钱买不来，命令下不到的，只有真心才能够换来的最可贵、最真实的东西。
朋友是一种相思。
朋友是彼此的牵挂，彼此的思念，彼此的关心，彼此的依靠。思念就像是一条不尽的河流，像一片温柔轻拂的流云，像一朵幽香阵阵的花蕊，像一曲余音袅袅的洞箫。她有时也是一种淡淡的回忆、淡淡的品茗、淡淡的共鸣。
朋友是一种相辉。
朋友就像是夜空里的星星和月亮，彼此光照，彼此星辉，彼此鼓励、彼此相望。朋友也就是镶嵌在默默的关爱中，不一定要日日相见，永存的是心心相通；朋友不必虚意逢迎，点点头也许就会意了；有时候遥相晖映，不亦乐乎？
花落才有花开，有散才有聚。若没了那一份无奈，又怎懂得珍惜。我们总是不遗余力地追求那一个天长地久，我们总是千方百计去留住那一个结果，却不知天有老时地有荒，这世界哪有不变的情？却不知如果曾经拥有过美，便不需去强求什么结果。这世界许多东西没有永恒，这世界许多事情没有结果，而美丽依旧美丽，辉煌照样辉煌，又何必斤斤计较时间的长短，又何必兜兜转转寻求因与果。离别时，如果我们可以执手相互道珍重，又何必一定要留在一起重复那许多琐碎的岁月！分手时，如果我们可以轻轻松松挥挥手，又何必无所谓地去翻找昔日的海誓山盟，花儿落了，明日还会开，流星虽逝，美好的愿望依旧在心底。于是所有的日子都轻松，于是所有的负重都甜美，于是不会再后悔，于是不会遗憾未了又遗憾，于是过去了的成为回忆，于是今天拥有的不会再无奈。拥有过的，永远不会失去，没有得到的，亦无须苦苦追求，是你的，迟早都是你的，不是你的，永远都不会属于你。只要你不为天长地久而苦恼。不必为失去的而遗憾，不必留恋昨天。只在乎曾经拥有。
朋友是一种相遇。
大千世界，红尘滚滚，于芸芸众生、茫茫人海中，朋友能够彼此遇到，能够走到一起，彼此相互认识，相互了解，相互走近，实在是缘份。在人来人往，聚散分离的人生旅途中，在各自不同的生命轨迹上，在不同经历的心海中，能够彼此相遇、相聚、相逢，可以说是一种幸运，缘份不是时刻都会有的，应该珍惜得来不易的缘。
朋友是一种相知。
朋友相处是一种相互认可，相互仰慕，相互欣赏、相互感知的过程。对方的优点、长处、亮点、美感， 都会映在你脑海，尽收眼底，哪怕是朋友一点点的可贵，也会成为你向上的能量，成为你终身受益的动力和源泉。朋友的智慧、知识、能力、激情，是吸引你靠近的 磁力和力量。同时你的一切也是朋友认识和感知你的过程。
朋友是一种相契。
朋友就是彼此一种心灵的感应，是一种心照不宣的感悟。你的举手投足，一颦一笑，一言一行，哪怕是一个眼神、一个动作、一个背影、一个回眸，朋友都会心领神会，不需要彼此的解释，不需要多言，不需要废话，不需要张扬，都会心心相印的。那是一种最温柔、最惬意、最畅快、最美好的意境。
朋友是一种相伴。
朋友就是漫漫人生路上的彼此相扶、相承、相伴、相佐。她是你烦闷时送上的绵绵心语或大吼大叫，寂寞时的欢歌笑语或款款情意，快乐时的如痴如醉或痛快淋漓，得意时善意的一盆凉水。在倾诉和聆听中感知朋友深情，在交流和接触中不断握手和感激。
朋友是一种相助。
风雨人生路，朋友可以为你挡风寒，为你分忧愁，为你解除痛苦和困难，朋友时时会伸出友谊之手。她是你登高时的一把扶梯，是你受伤时的一剂良药，是你饥渴时的一碗白水，是你过河时的一叶扁舟；她是金钱买不来，命令下不到的，只有真心才能够换来的最可贵、最真实的东西。
朋友是一种相思。
朋友是彼此的牵挂，彼此的思念，彼此的关心，彼此的依靠。思念就像是一条不尽的河流，像一片温柔轻拂的流云，像一朵幽香阵阵的花蕊，像一曲余音袅袅的洞箫。她有时也是一种淡淡的回忆、淡淡的品茗、淡淡的共鸣。
朋友是一种相辉。
朋友就像是夜空里的星星和月亮，彼此光照，彼此星辉，彼此鼓励、彼此相望。朋友也就是镶嵌在默默的关爱中，不一定要日日相见，永存的是心心相通；朋友不必虚意逢迎，点点头也许就会意了；有时候遥相晖映，不亦乐乎？
花落才有花开，有散才有聚。若没了那一份无奈，又怎懂得珍惜。我们总是不遗余力地追求那一个天长地久，我们总是千方百计去留住那一个结果，却不知天有老时地有荒，这世界哪有不变的情？却不知如果曾经拥有过美，便不需去强求什么结果。这世界许多东西没有永恒，这世界许多事情没有结果，而美丽依旧美丽，辉煌照样辉煌，又何必斤斤计较时间的长短，又何必兜兜转转寻求因与果。离别时，如果我们可以执手相互道珍重，又何必一定要留在一起重复那许多琐碎的岁月！分手时，如果我们可以轻轻松松挥挥手，又何必无所谓地去翻找昔日的海誓山盟，花儿落了，明日还会开，流星虽逝，美好的愿望依旧在心底。于是所有的日子都轻松，于是所有的负重都甜美，于是不会再后悔，于是不会遗憾未了又遗憾，于是过去了的成为回忆，于是今天拥有的不会再无奈。拥有过的，永远不会失去，没有得到的，亦无须苦苦追求，是你的，迟早都是你的，不是你的，永远都不会属于你。只要你不为天长地久而苦恼。不必为失去的而遗憾，不必留恋昨天。只在乎曾经拥有。
真正的友情不依靠什么，不依靠事业、祸福和身份，不依靠经历、地位和处境。他在本质上拒绝功利，拒绝归属，拒绝契约。他是独立人格之间的互相呼应和确认，他使人们独而不孤，互相解读自己存在的意义。因此，所谓朋友，是使对方活得更加温暖、更加自在的那些人。
友情因无所求而深刻，不管彼此是平衡还是不平衡。友情是精神上的寄托。有时他并不需要太多的言语，只需要一份默契。
人生在世，可以没有功业，却不可以没有友情。以友情助功业则功业成；为功业找友情则友情亡。二者不可颠倒。
人的一生需要接触很多人，因此，有两个层次的友情。宽泛意义的友情和严格意义的友情，没有前者未免拘谨，没有后者难于深刻。
宽泛意义的友情是一个人全部履历的光明面，但不管多宽，都要警惕邪恶，防范虚伪，反对背判；严格意义的友情是一个人终其一生所寻找的精神归宿。但在没有寻找到真正友情的时候，只能继续寻找，而不能随脚停驻。因此，我们不能轻言知己。一旦得到真正友情。我们要倍加珍惜。
来一次世间，容易吗？
有一次相遇，容易吗？
叫一声朋友，容易吗？
我们只能学会珍惜！
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 A bit of a charmer, the rat is usually welcome anywhere; however, generally has few close friends. The rat is intelligent, quick-witted and hardworking. Somewhat ambitious, with a tendency to be frivolous with material possessions. The rat is strongly family oriented, enjoys thrills but is easily bored. A little insecure and can lack boldness. The rat is an opportunist who lives for the moment and rarely plans for the future. All rats have a propensity for aggression; however, this is seldom expressed physically, but rather in fretting over details and being overly concerned about trivialities The always thrifty Rat, counts their pennies and knows how to spot a bargain. Impatient with those of slower wit or actions, this soul needs a bright partner willing to lend an ear with a good sense of humor. The talkative Rat is also a natural writer and critic with an eye for details. | ||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||||
Also known as the Buffalo, the ox is both patient and meticulous with strong principles, and as such tends to be very stubborn. The ox is extrememly strong, and an excellent worker.
However, these traits also make the ox stubborn, and their sense of self reliance makes it difficult for them to ask for or to receive assistance. Don't go looking for an evening of scintilating conversation from an ox as they are poor conversationists, and unfortunately don't have much of a sense of humour either.
Oxen are ruled by conviction, and they are not often swayed from their beliefs. The ox's ability to criticise others for their own shortcomings is well known. The ox is not very good at coping with its emotions, and can become introverted and self-destructive when they fail to find a way of expressing their feelings.
The tiger is adventurous, confident and enthusiastic. Because of this they are often successful in their chosen careers. Tigers are excellent at seeing problems, but not so good at finding solutions. They tend to rush in without sufficient consideration. Their strong sense of independence means that they hate to take orders.
Tigers often go to extraordinary lengths to prove themselves, and hate to be ignored. They are often noticed, and as such tend to rise to prominent positions. However, tigers rarely make it to the very top, preferring to be second in command.
Romantically, tigers are somewhat reckless, and can risk everything in pursuit of their heart's desires. As a friend they are extremely generous, and tend to give everything all at once. However, lasting friendships are few and far between. Excellent as parents, tigers teach their children by example
The rabbit is very sensitive, lucky, smart and creative. Their creativity extends to a love of all things beautiful, and accordingly they place great value on establising a beautiful home. This combines with a good nose for a bargain, to make rabbits 'collectors' of beautiful things. The love of beauty is also expressed in their dress sense, and female rabbits are said to have wonderful hair.
The rabbit is reserved and discreet, not particularly caring for the troubles of the world. Rabbits have an aversion to suffering which often means that they will shut out the cruelties of the real world, and retreat to their home and families. The rabbit is a good listener, and this, combined with its discretion makes it an excellent shoulder to cry on, as well as a very good diplomat.
Strategists by nature, rabbits will set a plan and follow it through. They are not given to acting on impulse. The rabbit prefers a routined lifestyle that only changes slowly over time. In business, they keep their word and avoid making promises they can't keep.
Dragons have strong personalities. They are self -assured and confident in their own abilities. They do not suffer fools easily, and become impatient with people who they perceive throw in the towel too readily: for their own part, they can put up quite a fight.
Dragons are honest, and often speak their minds, even when this is not appropriate. They are popular if somewhat inconsistent, full of energy, charismatic and colourful, strong, enthusiastic and inspiring.
The dragon is averse to any form of routine, preferring the freedom to pursue his or her own agenda. Should a dragon feel imprisoned either mentally or physically they will become very erratic. Once in decline, a dragon tends to become lazy, fat and bitter.
The outspoken nature of the dragon, and their tunnel vision may make him or her appear brash. However, by nature the dragon is a romantic.
The snake is a great thinker and philosopher, but conversely often makes decisions purely based upon intuition. Snakes are charming people with a strong sense of responsibility and a good sense of humour. On the downside the snake is a bit of a miser, and doesn't like to spend money.
The snake is endowed with immense intuition, and is somewhat enigmatic. Graceful and soft-spoken, the snake is a lover of the arts, fine books, food, music, the theatre. The snake has a natural penchant for the finer things in life. Snakes are famous for their beautiful skin and good looks.
The snake has the annoying habit of shunning advice and relying on their own counsel - annoying because, more often than not, they are correct!
Snakes make good teachers and although somewhat ill-disciplined themselves, require obedience and discipline both in the home as well as in the workplace.
Horses are hardworking people who are generally well liked and admired. As well as working hard, they play hard.
Horses are independent, and are well known for their individuality. They intuitively gravitate towards tasks to which they are well suited. This, together with their hard working nature invariably leads to success.
The horse is a strong masculine sign, and both male and female horses are fairly laid back and easy going, while at the same time being direct. Asked for an opinion, the horse will give it, and where factual matters are concerned, the horse is a good source of reliable information.
The horse is a placid person; however, if their passions are brought to the boil, the result is not easily forgotten - wild horses are hard to calm down. In the home the horse is a steady partner, although they are likely to give as much attention to their work as to their families. Horses easily fall in love, but there are many passing relationships before a long-term partner is found.
Also known as the Goat and the Ram, The Sheep is a gentle person, caring and compassionate. They are quiet when hurt, are strongly family oriented and being born under the sign of art, love beautiful things.
The sheep is the most feminine of the twelve animal signs. Sheep are thought by the Chinese to be harbingers of peace. Sheep are pacifist by nature, only becoming militant in order to restore harmony, and are quick to react against conflict to bring peace. Sheep love the good life, and their dislike for aggression and love for peace stems more from their love of fine things and the realisation that to enjoy these things, peace is required.
As aesthetic people, rams love to make a show of things. They make ideal performers, and are seldom bashful in front of a crowd - indeed, rams thrive when all eyes are turned on them. They have a strong tendency to roam, and for this reason need guidance, or in extreme cases, tethering!
Charming, cheeky, mischievous and ingenious, monkeys have little respect for authority, and often find themselves in trouble. Monkeys are born under the sign of fantasy and of all the twelve signs, monkeys are the nearest to mankind. Monkeys are blessed with great intelligence, and having a high regard for knowledge, they are capable of thinking through even the most complex problems.
Monkeys are not the best business people in the world. They are opportunistic, and often end up chasing profits rather than following through any business strategy. However, their quick wits and intelligence often brings them through, and they may make a fortune from nothing. A powerful memory coupled with a cool temperament when under pressure all give the monkey extremely strong survival skills.
The Chinese warn that the charm of the monkey, together with its tendency to fantasise can result in them telling extraordinary tales which you end up believing, however improbable. This helps them get out of difficult situations, and often helps them escape punishment for their mischief.
The monkey is a bit of a thrill seeker, and is always looking for a new experience. As such they find long term relationships somewhat elusive.
Roosters are organised, excellent time keepers and hard workers. They are faithful as friends, and very strongly family oriented. Despite this they can be somewhat headstrong, and not a little arrogant in giving advice, particularly of the sort that is not asked for! Although outwardly showy, at heart the rooster is somewhat insecure, by nature conservative and old fashioned.
The Chinese believe there are two types of rooster characters. The first is the sunrise/sunset rooster. Born during the sunset or sunrise hours, these are extrovert roosters who live for the moment. Money is seen as functional, its function being for spending - and they will spend with abandon. They are no strangers to overdrafts. The other group, those born outside of the sunrise/sunset ours, are the opposite. Very tight-fisted, they will go to the supermarket just before closing to find the items that have been reduced in price. They save money with great determination, only to squander it in an unguarded moment.
Of all the signs they are the most outspoken and blunt. . Roosters enjoy keeping records and are forever writing notes on bits of paper which are then filed and put away. They also tend to build castles in the air, which leads to another prominent feature of their personality; to promise more than they can deliver. A little short of initiative at times, once Roosters find a task that fits their rigid temperament nothing will stand in a Roosters way.
Although blunt, the roosters honesty makes for stable relationships. Their tendency to point out faults in other sometimes loses them friends, especially as they themselves do not take criticism easily.
Dogs are born under the sign of idealism, and as a result they are loyal and caring, hating injustice. They can be somewhat headstrong, and patience is not one of their strong points. Brave by nature, they do not shy away from danger.
The dog is a complex person, and not easily categorised, and come in all shapes and sizes. They are strongly influenced by a sense of fairness and of equality, and are often found to be promoting social reform.
Stubborn, watchful and often defensive, dogs find it hard to understand the general indifference people have to the wrongs of the world. They are quick to point out this fault, and to criticise our lack of concern for the world's injustices.
The dog's main ambition is to please. The desire to please often leads the dog to periods of anxiety, worrying that they are not doing their best. What other people think is important to a dog, and this can also lead to anxiety, and they can become very pessimistic when things aren't going well.
Dogs are often materially successful, and can make large sums of money; however, their cares for the world often means that their wealth does not bring happiness, which is brought about by personal relationships.
Also known as the Boar, the pig is a peace-lover, strong and straightforward. They can be seen as pure people who enjoy a quiet life. Although they can be quick to lose their tempers, they are just as quick to make up, forgive and forget. They are born under the sign of honesty.
Although they have a bad reputation in the West, the pig is highly regarded by the Chinese. No other animal works harder or plays harder. Well informed and social, the robust and hearty pig loves company. Another great love is clothing. Pigs dress to impress, and are masters of power dressing in work situations. On the social scene, the pig is the trend setter, not being simply well dressed, but being impressively dressed.
Despite their strong dress sense, pride in appearances does not always extend to the home! If pigs are messy in the home, then they are really messy. It is a strange trait of the pig that these two characteristics can run side by side. However, some pigs are just as flashy in their domestic set-ups as they are in their dress sense.
Pigs are greater talkers, and love gossip. At the same time they ensure that their voices are heard in debates, though only after gauging their own position first: they will not generally offer their opinion first. Having voiced their opinion the pig will take the attitude, 'take it or leave' it, and again, is not really concerned with what others think. In romance, this trait is reflected with a tendency to fall in love very quickly, often before more self-conscious people would dare to reveal their feelings.
一、成熟的人不问过去；聪明的人不问现在；豁达的人不问未来。
二、在人之上，要把人当人；在人之下，要把自己当人。
三、知道看人背后的是君子；知道背后看人的是小人。
四、你犯错误时，等别人都来了再骂你的是敌人，等别人都走了骂你的是朋友。
五、人只要能掌握自己，便什么也不会失去。
六、变老并不等于成熟，真正的成熟在于看透。
七、简单的生活之所以很不容易，是因为要活的简单，一定不能想的太多。
八、人们常犯最大的错误，是对陌生人太客气，而对亲密的人太苛刻，把这个坏习惯改过来，天下太平。
九、我们在梦里走了许多路，醒来后发现自己还在床上。
十、你的丑和你的脸没有关系。
十一、航海者虽比观望者要冒更大的风险，但却有希望到达彼岸。
十二、穷人的苦恼在于没有选择，富人的苦恼在于有太多选择。
十三、不要总觉得被轻视，先问问自己有没有分量。
十四、一个人的价值，不体现在与别人相同的东西上，而体现在与别人不同的东西上。
十五、静坐常思己过，闲谈莫论人非。
十六、发展是硬道理，但硬发展是没道理。
十七、人们是看你做什么，不是听你说什么。
十八、要求别人是很痛苦的，要求自己是很快乐的。
十九、不敢生气的是懦夫，不去生气的才是智者。
二十、对于人来说，问心无愧是最舒服的枕头。
二十一、嫉妒他人，表明他人的成功，被人嫉妒，表明自己成功。
二十二、有些事情，不谈是个结，谈开了是个疤。
二十三、一口吃不成胖子，但胖子却是一口一口吃来的。
二十四、喜欢花的人是会去摘花的，然而爱花的人则会去浇水。
1、不要自视清高
天外有天，人上有人，淡泊明志，宁静致远。当别人把你当领导时，自己不要把自己当领导，当别人不把你当领导时，自己一定要把自己当领导，权力是一时的，金钱是身外的，身体是自己的，做人是长久的。
2、不要盲目承诺
言而有信。种下行动就会收获习惯；种下习惯便会收获性格；种下性格便会收获命运——习惯造就一个人。
3、不要轻易求人
把自己当别人——减少痛苦、平淡狂喜，把别人当自己——同情不幸，理解需要，把别人当别人——尊重独立性，不侵犯他人，把自己当自己——珍惜自己，快乐生活。能够认识别人是一种智慧，能够被别人认识是一种幸福，能够自己认识自己是圣者贤人。
4、不要强加于人
人本是人，不必刻意去做人；世本是世，无须精心去处世。人生三种境界：看山是山，看水是水——人之初；看山不是山，看水不是水——人到中年；看山还是山，看水还是水——回归自然。
5、不要取笑别人
损害他人人格，快乐一时，伤害一生。生命的整体是相互依存的，世界上每一样东西都依赖其它另一样东西，学会感恩。感恩大自然的福佑，感恩父母的养育，感恩社会的安定，感恩食之香甜，感恩衣之温暖，感恩花草鱼虫，感恩苦难逆境。
6、不要乱发脾气
一伤身体，二伤感情，人与人在出生和去世中都是平等的——哭声中来，哭声中去。千万注意，自己恋恋不舍，而别人早就去意已决，人生应看三座山：井冈山普陀山八宝山，退一步海阔天空，忍一事风平浪静；牢骚太多防肠断，风物长宜放眼量。
7、不要信口开河
言多必失，沉默是金，倾听一种智慧，一种修养、一种尊重、一种心灵的沟通，平静是一种心态，一种成熟。
8、不要小看仪表
撒播美丽，收获幸福，仪表是一种心情，仪表是一种力量，在自己审视美的同时，让别人欣赏美，心灵瑜伽——调适、修炼、超越。
9、不要封闭自己
帮助人是一种崇高，理解人是一种豁达，原谅人是一种美德，服务人是一种快乐，月圆是诗，月缺是花，仰首是春，俯首是秋。
10、不要欺负老实人
同情弱者是一种品德、一种境界、一种和谐，心理健康，才能身体健康，人有一分器量，便多一分气质，人有一分气质，便多一分人缘，人有一分人缘，便多一分事业，积善成德、修身养性。
二、在人之上，要把人当人；在人之下，要把自己当人。
三、知道看人背后的是君子；知道背后看人的是小人。
四、你犯错误时，等别人都来了再骂你的是敌人，等别人都走了骂你的是朋友。
五、人只要能掌握自己，便什么也不会失去。
六、变老并不等于成熟，真正的成熟在于看透。
七、简单的生活之所以很不容易，是因为要活的简单，一定不能想的太多。
八、人们常犯最大的错误，是对陌生人太客气，而对亲密的人太苛刻，把这个坏习惯改过来，天下太平。
九、我们在梦里走了许多路，醒来后发现自己还在床上。
十、你的丑和你的脸没有关系。
十一、航海者虽比观望者要冒更大的风险，但却有希望到达彼岸。
十二、穷人的苦恼在于没有选择，富人的苦恼在于有太多选择。
十三、不要总觉得被轻视，先问问自己有没有分量。
十四、一个人的价值，不体现在与别人相同的东西上，而体现在与别人不同的东西上。
十五、静坐常思己过，闲谈莫论人非。
十六、发展是硬道理，但硬发展是没道理。
十七、人们是看你做什么，不是听你说什么。
十八、要求别人是很痛苦的，要求自己是很快乐的。
十九、不敢生气的是懦夫，不去生气的才是智者。
二十、对于人来说，问心无愧是最舒服的枕头。
二十一、嫉妒他人，表明他人的成功，被人嫉妒，表明自己成功。
二十二、有些事情，不谈是个结，谈开了是个疤。
二十三、一口吃不成胖子，但胖子却是一口一口吃来的。
二十四、喜欢花的人是会去摘花的，然而爱花的人则会去浇水。
1、不要自视清高
天外有天，人上有人，淡泊明志，宁静致远。当别人把你当领导时，自己不要把自己当领导，当别人不把你当领导时，自己一定要把自己当领导，权力是一时的，金钱是身外的，身体是自己的，做人是长久的。
2、不要盲目承诺
言而有信。种下行动就会收获习惯；种下习惯便会收获性格；种下性格便会收获命运——习惯造就一个人。
3、不要轻易求人
把自己当别人——减少痛苦、平淡狂喜，把别人当自己——同情不幸，理解需要，把别人当别人——尊重独立性，不侵犯他人，把自己当自己——珍惜自己，快乐生活。能够认识别人是一种智慧，能够被别人认识是一种幸福，能够自己认识自己是圣者贤人。
4、不要强加于人
人本是人，不必刻意去做人；世本是世，无须精心去处世。人生三种境界：看山是山，看水是水——人之初；看山不是山，看水不是水——人到中年；看山还是山，看水还是水——回归自然。
5、不要取笑别人
损害他人人格，快乐一时，伤害一生。生命的整体是相互依存的，世界上每一样东西都依赖其它另一样东西，学会感恩。感恩大自然的福佑，感恩父母的养育，感恩社会的安定，感恩食之香甜，感恩衣之温暖，感恩花草鱼虫，感恩苦难逆境。
6、不要乱发脾气
一伤身体，二伤感情，人与人在出生和去世中都是平等的——哭声中来，哭声中去。千万注意，自己恋恋不舍，而别人早就去意已决，人生应看三座山：井冈山普陀山八宝山，退一步海阔天空，忍一事风平浪静；牢骚太多防肠断，风物长宜放眼量。
7、不要信口开河
言多必失，沉默是金，倾听一种智慧，一种修养、一种尊重、一种心灵的沟通，平静是一种心态，一种成熟。
8、不要小看仪表
撒播美丽，收获幸福，仪表是一种心情，仪表是一种力量，在自己审视美的同时，让别人欣赏美，心灵瑜伽——调适、修炼、超越。
9、不要封闭自己
帮助人是一种崇高，理解人是一种豁达，原谅人是一种美德，服务人是一种快乐，月圆是诗，月缺是花，仰首是春，俯首是秋。
10、不要欺负老实人
同情弱者是一种品德、一种境界、一种和谐，心理健康，才能身体健康，人有一分器量，便多一分气质，人有一分气质，便多一分人缘，人有一分人缘，便多一分事业，积善成德、修身养性。
世界上总是有一些很怪的事…… 有时当你爱上一人，你会无时无刻的想到他的身影，
当你孤单时，会希望陪在你身边的也是他。
如果是单恋的话，胆小一些的人，会偷偷的躲起来看着他。
等啊等……一直到最后才会放弃，这种人说真的，很傻。
也许痴痴等待换来的不过是失望，却也会一直的等下去。
在得知对方也喜欢他的瞬间，心情真的会飞上天堂。
好像天塌下来也不怕，只因为心爱的人也爱你。
但是那都是在热恋时心里才会这样想。
大家都不会相信，不完美的爱情会发生在自己身上。
一直到分手了，脑中热恋的激素退去后。
才开始思考之前的回忆，那些回忆有好有坏。
希望大家都是好的那方，而不是越想越恨。
分手之后，人都会找理由，一个合理又不伤人的理由。
但事实上，我们找不到，因为……
不管什么理由，都一样伤人。
不过最惨的，是你爱到最后发现，你爱的人不爱你。
一切过往的甜蜜回忆将瞬间崩溃。
当分手时，祝对方幸福是很有风度的。
可是当对方还爱你时，这句话会伤他伤的更深；
要是你再加上一句：对于你，我已经看的很开了。
对方心碎的声音，你是听不见的。
有些人会要求继续当朋友，也许双方都能遵守。
不过不容否认的是：到了世界末日的时候，最爱的你人并不一定是陪在你身边的那个，陪着你的也许是适合你的人，而不是最爱你的人。
不过这也是也许……还是有人能找到适合又相爱的人，为了自己也为了你的他，离开一段不属于你的恋情，是最明智的选择……
经历一些事情之后，人会长大，也会更了解一些事；而经历一段感情后，会更懂得去爱。
留的住的叫幸福，流逝的叫遗憾。
幸福的滋味是甜甜的，偶尔酸酸的；遗憾的感觉是苦苦的，偶尔会辣辣的。
好好对待你身边的人，能在一起就是幸福。
如果爱上，就不要轻易放过机会。
莽撞，可能使你后悔一阵子；怯懦，却可能使你一辈子后悔。
没有经历过爱情的人生是不完整的，没有经历过痛苦的爱情是不深刻的。
爱情使人生丰富，痛苦使爱情升华……
当你孤单时，会希望陪在你身边的也是他。
等啊等……一直到最后才会放弃，这种人说真的，很傻。
也许痴痴等待换来的不过是失望，却也会一直的等下去。
在得知对方也喜欢他的瞬间，心情真的会飞上天堂。
好像天塌下来也不怕，只因为心爱的人也爱你。
但是那都是在热恋时心里才会这样想。
大家都不会相信，不完美的爱情会发生在自己身上。
一直到分手了，脑中热恋的激素退去后。
才开始思考之前的回忆，那些回忆有好有坏。
希望大家都是好的那方，而不是越想越恨。
分手之后，人都会找理由，一个合理又不伤人的理由。
但事实上，我们找不到，因为……
不管什么理由，都一样伤人。
不过最惨的，是你爱到最后发现，你爱的人不爱你。
一切过往的甜蜜回忆将瞬间崩溃。
当分手时，祝对方幸福是很有风度的。
可是当对方还爱你时，这句话会伤他伤的更深；
要是你再加上一句：对于你，我已经看的很开了。
对方心碎的声音，你是听不见的。
有些人会要求继续当朋友，也许双方都能遵守。
不过不容否认的是：到了世界末日的时候，最爱的你人并不一定是陪在你身边的那个，陪着你的也许是适合你的人，而不是最爱你的人。
不过这也是也许……还是有人能找到适合又相爱的人，为了自己也为了你的他，离开一段不属于你的恋情，是最明智的选择……
经历一些事情之后，人会长大，也会更了解一些事；而经历一段感情后，会更懂得去爱。
留的住的叫幸福，流逝的叫遗憾。
幸福的滋味是甜甜的，偶尔酸酸的；遗憾的感觉是苦苦的，偶尔会辣辣的。
好好对待你身边的人，能在一起就是幸福。
如果爱上，就不要轻易放过机会。
莽撞，可能使你后悔一阵子；怯懦，却可能使你一辈子后悔。
没有经历过爱情的人生是不完整的，没有经历过痛苦的爱情是不深刻的。
爱情使人生丰富，痛苦使爱情升华……
放手是一种无奈的绝望，痛彻心扉。当曾经珍爱如生命的人即将相逢陌路时，才恍然大悟：原来，曾经以为的天长地久，其实不过是萍水相逢。 
曾经以为可以这样牵着手一路走下去，可是放手了才明白一切只是两条平行线，当一切都烟消云散，平行的依旧平行。即使相隔不远，也已是人各天涯。
勇敢的代价是自己先放下，承认失败、接受无奈，轻轻地叹口气，祝福他今后幸福快乐。从此心若芷水，难起波澜。
卷缩在角落，等待着伤口平复，体会敢爱敢恨敢失去的洒脱。
幸福的感觉也许只能刹那，刹那过后，是一个人的精彩。
放手的日子，总是落落孤欢，会莫名地为了一首歌，一部戏，一个情节。甚或是一句话而泪流满面。总觉得天是黑的，云是灰的。
总觉得失去了生活的意义。朋友告诉我：你什么也没有失去，你只是回到了认识他以前的日子。我释然，就像烟花不可能永远挂在天际，只要曾经灿烂过，又何必执着于没有烟花的日子呢？
我们都是凡尘男女，挣不出纠缠的情网。逃不过爱与被爱的旋涡，心碎神伤后。是漫无止境的寂寞，寂寞吗？或许吧！再也不用为了猜测他的心思而绞尽脑汁，会不会轻舒一口气，感觉轻松一点点呢？
是真的想开了吗？可以平静的面对他和她。纵然心里有种隐隐的说不出的酸楚。可是我不会落泪，哭泣是因为一个人的记忆在心里。无论怎样也不肯散去。我一次次的问自己：“爱你我怕了吗？”答案是肯定的，我怕了，我真的怕了，千疮百孔的心，脆弱得再也经不起痛入骨髓的折磨，于是我放了他，也给自己放了一条生路。把他凝成一幅画，深深的刻在脑海里...看着，想着，可是不会在做画中人，置身画外，才能更好地欣赏画的美丽，不是吗？
用力地握握手，真诚地说声：“再见，珍重！”转过头，洒脱的走开,让背影深深地烙在他的脑海里，当你能够用释然的心态去回忆，你们的点点滴滴,你就可以体会到放手后的美丽。
上帝让我在错误的时间遇上了你，我...哭了。
它让我在正确的时间离开了你，你...会哭吗？
一次次说这次真的放下了，不知道自己还能这样骗自己多久．
曾经以为可以这样牵着手一路走下去，可是放手了才明白一切只是两条平行线，当一切都烟消云散，平行的依旧平行。即使相隔不远，也已是人各天涯。勇敢的代价是自己先放下，承认失败、接受无奈，轻轻地叹口气，祝福他今后幸福快乐。从此心若芷水，难起波澜。
卷缩在角落，等待着伤口平复，体会敢爱敢恨敢失去的洒脱。
幸福的感觉也许只能刹那，刹那过后，是一个人的精彩。
放手的日子，总是落落孤欢，会莫名地为了一首歌，一部戏，一个情节。甚或是一句话而泪流满面。总觉得天是黑的，云是灰的。
总觉得失去了生活的意义。朋友告诉我：你什么也没有失去，你只是回到了认识他以前的日子。我释然，就像烟花不可能永远挂在天际，只要曾经灿烂过，又何必执着于没有烟花的日子呢？
我们都是凡尘男女，挣不出纠缠的情网。逃不过爱与被爱的旋涡，心碎神伤后。是漫无止境的寂寞，寂寞吗？或许吧！再也不用为了猜测他的心思而绞尽脑汁，会不会轻舒一口气，感觉轻松一点点呢？
是真的想开了吗？可以平静的面对他和她。纵然心里有种隐隐的说不出的酸楚。可是我不会落泪，哭泣是因为一个人的记忆在心里。无论怎样也不肯散去。我一次次的问自己：“爱你我怕了吗？”答案是肯定的，我怕了，我真的怕了，千疮百孔的心，脆弱得再也经不起痛入骨髓的折磨，于是我放了他，也给自己放了一条生路。把他凝成一幅画，深深的刻在脑海里...看着，想着，可是不会在做画中人，置身画外，才能更好地欣赏画的美丽，不是吗？
用力地握握手，真诚地说声：“再见，珍重！”转过头，洒脱的走开,让背影深深地烙在他的脑海里，当你能够用释然的心态去回忆，你们的点点滴滴,你就可以体会到放手后的美丽。
上帝让我在错误的时间遇上了你，我...哭了。
它让我在正确的时间离开了你，你...会哭吗？
一次次说这次真的放下了，不知道自己还能这样骗自己多久．
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